Family Teaching Guide · Ages 4–5 · Tigers
Self-Control
August · Word of the Month
This month we are learning about SELF-CONTROL! Self-control means stopping, breathing, and making a good choice, even when we feel upset. It's a skill your child practices every time they wait for their turn in class.
🛑 What is self-control?
Self-control is stopping to think before we act — especially when we feel big feelings like anger or frustration. Taking a deep breath is one of the best tools for practicing self-control.
📖 Examples of self-control for this age
- ●Taking a deep breath when frustrated
- ●Waiting your turn patiently
- ●Using words instead of yelling
- ●Stopping to think before grabbing something
💬 Try asking your child
- ●What can you do when you feel upset?
- ●Who helps you calm down?
- ●What does taking a deep breath feel like?
💡 Try This At Home
Practice "stop and breathe" together during calm moments, not just meltdowns — that way the tool is already familiar when big feelings show up for real.
"Stop, breathe, and choose kind!" Practice one big deep breath together right now.